rebecca_in_blue: (dropped jaw)
A conversation I had with Adam while I was over at Mom's house this evening...

Adam: "You know, I really hate Father's Day. You see all these signs and stuff for it, and you know it's an important day for most families, but for you, it doesn't matter at all. It's just another day." [Is he just realizing this now? Our dad has been dead for nigh-on eight years!]

Me: "Dude, you're telling me this? I don't celebrate Christmas, remember?"

Adam: "Oh, yeah."

rebecca_in_blue: (excited grin)
I was going to sign off, clean the kitchen, go to bed, and post this another day, but then I decided to write it down before the feeling goes away. There was another session of Sunday school at the temple this morning. I've posted before about how it hasn't been going perfectly for me, and I expected today's class would be more of the same. We got all the kids together to plant a fig tree sapling on the temple grounds in honor of Tu Bish'vat, a Jewish holiday celebrating trees. I got my coworker EJ to switch shifts with me so I could go, and when I told him this, he said, "Y'all just have the most random holidays! That's awesome!"

To my surprise, I really enjoyed it -- and I think the kids did, too. They all worked together to dig a hole and plant the sapling. It's a Celeste fig tree, which produces the sweetest, juciest figs of all -- of course, it'll be a long time before this one produces any figs! -- and is very popular in the South. I took a few photos, and this one is my favorite. I don't even mind the insane amount of sunflare (it was early in the morning!) because you can really see how much fun the kids had.


I'll share this love I find with everyone
We'll sing and dance to Mother Nature's song

Afterwards, we had Hebrew lessons; not all of the kids could stay for that, so I ended up with just two little boys in my class. They're not twins, but they're brothers very close in age and look SO much alike. Even though I've known them for almost a year, some months ago I gave up on ever trying to tell them apart. (I'm not the only person at temple who has this problem. I've seen them both answer to the other one's name.) But this morning, I somehow did what I thought I could never do and learned who was who! Now I can call them by their first names, instead of "Mr. C----."

I also managed to teach them a little Hebrew, even though the older one speaks the language better than as well as me. I hope I never forget how their faces lit up when they sounded out and read new words for the first time.

Who's to say I can't do everything?
Well I can try, and as I roll along I begin to find
Things aren't always just what they seem
I don't want this feeling to go away

{Lyrics from "Upside Down," by Jack Johnson. Listen here. The video is adorable.}
rebecca_in_blue: (dropped jaw)

Jane: Father isn't in trouble, we are.

Bert: Oh, sure about that, are you? Look at it this way. You've got your mother and father to look after you, and Mary Poppins, and Constable Jones, and me. Who looks after your father? Tell me that. When something terrible happens, what does he do? Who does he tell about it? No one! Don't blab his troubles, he don't. He just pushes on at his job, uncomplaining, alone and silent.

Michael: He's not very silent.

Jane: Michael, be quiet. Bert, do you think Father really needs our help?

Bert: Well, it's not my place to say. I only observe that a father can always do with a bit of help.

{Father's Day 2011}

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The last day of 2010 was a busy one for Rebecca. I woke up early to call a car lot and my credit union, but apparently everything in town was closed yesterday. Everything, that is, except where I work, and we were actually pretty busy. From work I went straight to Shabbat services at the temple. The service was held a half-hour earlier than usual, and afterwards, a lot of us went to an interdominational prayer service/dinner at the Methodist church.

The prayer service was a little cheesy, but I enjoyed it. People from different faiths gave speeches about their religious traditions for the new year, and while one lady was talking about customs in Catholic Latin America, she asked if anyone knew the names of the three wise men. Rebecca owned that: Balthasar, Melchior, and Caspar. Somebody from the temple asked me how I knew that, and I told him it was because I went to Catholic high school (and I did) but it's really because I live with my name-obsessed sister. That's also how I know the names of Noah's three sons. In fact, I'd bet any amount of money Sara knows more about Biblical names than 99% of religious people, and she's not religious at all.

The dinner was mostly dessert foods, although there was cabbage and black-eyed peas, of course. Somehow, I wound up seated next to the mayor of our city! I didn't realize who he was until someone introduced me, and after I'd lost the opportunity to talk to him, I found out he speaks Cajun French! I didn't eat too much, but the food was very rich, so I felt sick later.

Today Sara and I went to CJ & Company's house to eat lunch and play games. Aunt Connie had cooked up a ton of food (pot roast, green bean casserole, "funeral potatoes," salad, black-eyed peas) and I ate too much, but I lose all shreds of self-control when I get near green bean casserole. Then I went bike riding with Eva and swinging in the park with Josh. As we were leaving, I found a mirror they were throwing out and brought it home to put on the back of my door. It's leaning against the wall now, and when Sable saw it, he sniffed and growled at his reflection! I was so amazed. I had no idea his eyesight was still that good. He hasn't paid any attention to his reflection since he was a puppy and thought his reflection in our dishwasher was his brother (whom he lived with before we got him).

I got a giftcard to the bookstore for Christmas, and I put it to good use. I got the two things I really wanted: a 2011 calendar and a Tanakh (a Jewish Bible). I went with another Emily Dickinson calendar like the one I had in 2010, and usually I hate repetitive calendars, but what can I say, her poetry is really growing on me. My Tanakh is pocket-sized, with very fine fine print, but now I'm all set to go to Torah study at the temple next week. The young woman who's holding it is named Rebekah and is almost exactly my age. :)

A Cajun blessing for 2011:
Je vous souhaite du bonne aventure, bonne fortune, bonne santé, et une bonne nouvelle année.

rebecca_in_blue: (pursed lips)
I managed to get to the cemetery on Memorial Day, and the Avenue of Flags was a sight to behold. (Lucky for everyone that the thunderstorm didn't come till later that evening.) Picture as many American flags as you've ever seen in one place, then imagine even more. It was hot and bright -- and I'd lost my sunglasses; just broke down yesterday and bought a new pair * -- but I walked around and took some horribly out-of-focus pictures that did absolutely no justice to the scene.

Then I headed to my mom's house for some barbeque. I still had my digital camera that I'd taken to the cemetery with me, so I decided to use their computer to upload some photos to Find a Grave and discovered that their tower has an SD reader built into it. It was the coolest thing! Hm, it just occurred to me that maybe I could use their computer to format my SD cards, since my camera has apparently lost that function. Damn, then I'd be in hog heaven. Geek heaven?

I was off for Memorial Day, which was sweet, but the downside is that I'll have worked only four days both this week and last week ('cause I called in sick last Friday). My next paycheck is going to be teeny-tiny. But at least I'll be working more hours next week, after Tracey goes on her maternity leave.

For all the distant rainclouds and rumblings of thunder lately, we've had very little actual rain. Today it was sunny when I left the apartment and sunny when I got to work, with a rainstorm inbetween (which, according to my manager, hadn't touched our strip mall at all). Talk about your scattered showers.

* Things I will never like: Riding my bike without sunglasses. It has to be very cloudy or dark for me to bike without my sunglasses on. I don't know why, but I hate the idea that other people can tell where I'm looking. My sunglasses make me feel protected, shielded. I'd rather bike in shorts than bike without them. Well, maybe.

rebecca_in_blue: (raised eyebrows)
Sable seems to be spending more time than ever in his many beds -- not sleeping, but just lying there with his head on his paws, raising his eyes when someone walks by. It's the most pathetic-looking thing you can imagine. Poor old pup.

Last Sunday, April 11, was Holocaust Remembrance Day. I looked up more information on it, and found out that every year on that day in Israel (where it's known as Yom Ha'Shoah), sirens are sounded are sounded across the country at ten in the morning, and people are expected to stop whatever they're doing and stand at attention for two minutes, in remembrance of Holocaust victims. People who are driving stop their cars and get out of their vehicles. I looked up videos of this on YouTube, and they were incredible. In a crowded neighborhood in Jerusalem, everyone stood so still that the only movement was the birds and the Israeli flag flapping in the wind. On a major highway, all the cars stopped and the drivers got out. I can't imagine how powerful it must feel to pay tribute like that, knowing that you're doing together with people all across your contry. That's an appopriate way to pay tribute. It makes me wish we did something similar here, instead of having Memorial Day Sales at the mall. But then, I don't think any nation in the world has an event in its past that's comparable to Israel and the Holocaust.

Hahahas, courtesy of me and my grandma:
Grandma: Do you need any vitamins? I have three bottles in here. Course some of them are probably out of date by now.
Me: Why'd you buy three bottles?
Grandma: Well, they were on sale, and I had a buy one, get one free coupon.
Me: You and your sales and your coupons. You end up buying all this stuff you don't even need.
Grandma: I know. [pause] But I'm gonna stop.
Me: Yeah, you'll stop when you're dead.
rebecca_in_blue: (pursed lips)

Sara and I have both managed to get eye infections.

It was sunny and cool today, so I went on a long bike ride. First I rode downtown and saw part of the MLK parade and the other MLK Day festivities at the Civic Center. The parade was nice, but for some reason, there were a lot of horses in it, so it didn't smell very good. The other downside is that I was the only white person I saw there, and don't think I didn't look. I tried not to let it make me uncomfortable, but it did. The longer I was there, the more I didn't get it. And I didn't get it when my sister looked at me like I was nuts and said "Why?" when I told her where I'd been.


It reminded me of the first day back to school after MLK Day, when the Key Club would include a quote from him in the morning prayer. And every year, it was said by the same student, the only black member of the Key Club (there weren't many black students at my private high school). And I wondered then if there was some rule that he was the only one who could quote MLK.

It's like white people don't seem to feel entitled to celebrate MLK Day. Maybe because of the whole "white guilt" thing, or maybe because I live in the South, but either way, I don't get it. It's sad if black people are the only ones who celebrate MLK Day, because it's not as if he believed in special rights for blacks. He was about equality for all, and that's a message that everyone should be able to celebrate. On the same note, I don't feel that Obama's win is a victory for black America. That reminds me of high school too, when my theology told me that JKF's win was a victory for Catholics (because he was the first Catholic president). JFK's win was a victory for everyone, because it proved that America was wiser, more tolerant, and knew not to judge a man by his religion alone. The same goes for Obama. His win is proof of how far we've all come.

Anyway... when I took Sable on a walk today, we were followed by a stray dog I'd never seen before (and I know a lot of the dogs in the neighborhood). It was odd, because he was a little puppy, very energetic and frisky, and black all over -- all things that Sable used to be. It was almost like young Sable had sprung out of 1996 and was following us along. I don't think 2009 Sable liked him. He spent the rest of the afternoon being depressed.

Sara and I went shopping yesterday and right inside the entrance, there was a display right with packages of a dozen cupcakes. They had red, white, and blue frosting, and half of them had tiny rice-paper pictures of MLK, and other half, Obama. I loved that we should've gotten some, but we didn't. MLK cupcakes are more delicious than regular cupcakes because they taste like justice and equality!

rebecca_in_blue: (dozing off)

The school threw an elaborate party in the cafeteria for the boarding students last night. There was a disco ball, at least a hundred balloons, and music with a bass beat so loud it almost shook the school. And all the students wore costumes. I asked my morning class about it today, and they said that it’s a tradition for the school to throw a party for the boarding students before the February vacation. One student said that the theme for this year’s costumes was famous characters and that she painted her face green and went as Shrek.

The other assistants and I spent yesterday evening having our own little party in the kitchen to celebrate Chinese New Year. We all rolled up our sleeves and helped Sarah made Chinese dumplings, which was a lot of work (stirring, chopping up tons of raw meat and vegetables, rolling out so much dough that it covered almost the entire table). But making the dumplings wasn’t as hard as eating them with chopsticks; everyone could do it except me, and they found my fumbling attempts rather amusing. But Sarah kept saying that I was the guest of honor because this is my year (the Year of the Rat), and the dumplings that I managed to eat were surprisingly good, which was nice.

Funny Chinese Sarah Moments of the Evening:
Watching the French Vanna White on the French Wheel of Fortune… Sarah: Why do they have this woman? I think she is not necessary. Everyone else: *laughing hysterically*
Trying to eat with chopsticks… Me: I can’t do this, Sarah! Sarah: I think you can do it, because whenever I try to do something, you always tell me, ‘You can do it.’ Me: Yeah, but that’s you, not me. Sarah: I think is the same.


Meanwhile, I’ve been trying to think up a nice way to tell Nathalie that it pisses me off to no end when students come through the hallway where Marlene, Sarah, Heather, and I live. The door to our hall is clearly marked PRIVEE, but there’s a group of students who regularly visit Nathalie and use it as a shortcut to her office. And even more annoying is Nathalie’s son’s parade of girlfriends. I know for a fact that Marlene and Heather are pissed off by it too (Sarah probably isn’t, because the only time I ever saw her get anywhere close to mad was when I mistakenly said that Yoko Ono was Chinese. “She not Chinese! She Japanese!”) but none of us want to say anything because Nathalie does so much for us. But I’m not going to worry about that now, because I’m on vacation, and tonight Mariana is going to teach me how to make a piñata.

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Well, Rebecca is spending Mardi Gras in France this year, and she celebrated it by doing... nothing. I did a lesson on it with my students about it, but for some reason, the students I had today (who are usually very good) were rather apathetic and uninterested – probably because this is the last week before the February vacation. I'm hoping to travel somewhere during that time, but I don't know if I actually will. I realized just now this is the first time I've ever had to go to school/work on Mardi Gras. But I did enjoy the day. I spent the evening watching The Fellowship of the Ring with Heather and Marlene, and we had a nice discussion about how the movies are a metaphor for the Industrial Revolution. Almost every teacher at my Catholic high school claimed that it was a metaphor for Catholicism, which I don't see at all.

The lycée is looking so festive right now. This Thursday is Chinese New Year, which is super important in Chinese culture – so important that Sarah spent all last weekend cutting the Chinese character for happiness out of construction paper and taping one on almost every single door in the the entire
lycée! Then, yesterday, for no apparent reason, Mariana taught her students how to make Mexican piñatas out of paper mâché and hung the results up in the commons area. They don't clash with the Chinese New Year decorations as horribly as Mariana was afraid they would. She said she would teach me how to make a piñata sometime.

And I finally got tired of looking at icons of myself, so I set my icon of Sable and me as my default and uploaded five new ones. I decided to go with the theme of child actresses with dogs. Here they are...

  
All made by me.

The actresses are, from left to right, Hatty Jones (as Madeline, with Genevieve), Shirley Temple, Dakota Fanning, Natalie Portman, and Alicia Morton (as Little Orphan Annie, with Sandy).
rebecca_in_blue: (subtle sigh)
List: Things Rebecca loves about America.
  • The Bill of Rights (the first ten Amendments to the Constitution).
  • The Declaration of Independence.
  • Dimes.
  • The Fourth of July.
  • Inventing rock-n-roll.
  • Dr. Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.
  • Landing on the moon.
  • Louisiana.
  • "My Country 'Tis of Thee."
  • The Nineteenth Amendment.
  • The Oscars!
  • America's treatment of its Jews. Although American Jews have always faced discrimination (most states did not allow them to vote until the late 1800's), America has never passed the slew of anti-Semitic laws that most countries in the world, especially most European countries, have enforced at some point in their history. America has never outlawed Jews from owning property or forced them to live in ghettos, pay special taxes, or physically identify themselves as Jews by a sign or specific article of clothing. Nor has America ever had progroms, organized killings of Jews. (We did have lynchings, though. Minus one for America there.) From George Washington's letter to the Jews of Newport, Rhode Island, in 1790, to George W. Bush declaring Jewish Heritage Week in 2004, America ranks close to Israel as one of the least anti-Semitic countries in the world.

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